Category: courage

RENEWING A RELATIONSHIP…

KORACH — What happens when you find yourself in a disagreement with someone?  There are times when a distance grows between you that must be bridged in order to save the relationship.  When that moment arrives, who will be the person who reaches out and extends the olive branch?  Is reaching out to the other person first a sign of strength or a sign of weakness?  On one hand, it takes a lot of character to attempt to reconcile with someone when the relationship is not going well.   On the other hand, it might be seen as “giving in”...

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COURAGE TO THINK DIFFERENTLY…

SHELACH LECHA — Most likely you have found yourself in a group situation where your opinion simply does not match the group consensus? Do you speak your mind, or do you keep silent? If you choose to share your opinion, how do you go about introducing it? And if you remain quiet, do you think of it as being for the “good of the group”? In this week’s Torah portion, Shelach Lecha, a group of scouts is sent out to report back on what lies ahead for the Israelites. When ten of the twelve scouts return, ten paint a...

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SELF-CONFIDENCE MAKES COURAGE POSSIBLE…

SHELACH LECHA — Courage is necessary to get through certain moments in each of our lives.  For some it takes courage to meet new people or walk alone into a party.  For others it’s a job interview or moving to a new place.  There are those who have an abundance of courage and those who have it in short supply.  But what makes courage possible is self-confidence — a positive self-image and a belief that things will turn out all right. In this week’s Torah portion, Moses chooses twelve men to go to the Promised Land to see whether...

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LEARNING FROM ADVERSITY…

BAMIDBAR — A mother hovers over her young son climbing on monkey bars.  A thirteen year-old girl’s parents won’t let her walk alone to the school bus stop two blocks away.  Another parent decides what her children wear to school each day.  Parents of course have the job of protecting their kids, but the question is how much should they protect.  Should parents always step in when the homework is rough?  Should parents call another child’s parent when their son or daughter is having a conflict with that child? Keeping children in a hothouse for all of childhood, not...

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THE FAITH TO GO FORWARD…

BESHALACH — Woody Allen has said that 90% of life is showing up.  Maybe his number is too high but being willing to get involved, to step out, to show up, to make the phone call, to make the appointment, to introduce yourself, can bring outsized results.  Taking the initiative can give you momentum to carry you to your goals. In our parsha this week the Israelites left Egypt and were cornered at the sea by on-rushing Egyptians. The Israelites were terrified and about to give up hope.  The only one who had the courage to walk into the sea...

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