Category: attitude

LEARNING FROM ADVERSITY…

BAMIDBAR — A mother hovers over her young son climbing on monkey bars.  A thirteen year-old girl’s parents won’t let her walk alone to the school bus stop two blocks away.  Another parent decides what her children wear to school each day.  Parents of course have the job of protecting their kids, but the question is how much should they protect.  Should parents always step in when the homework is rough?  Should parents call another child’s parent when their son or daughter is having a conflict with that child? Keeping children in a hothouse for all of childhood, not...

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ATTITUDE SHOWS WHAT IS HAPPENING INSIDE…

METZORA — Attitude is crucial to living well. For both children and adults, the attitude we have has a lot to do with how we experience our life as well as how we experience one another. For example, how we approach our required tasks each day signifies a great deal about how we live our lives. If we approach them with dread and resentment as opposed to acceptance and relative good cheer, we communicate negatively to our children about how to get through life and its obligations. To teach our children well about tasks and responsibility means living well ourselves. Our Parsha...

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REASON IS LOST IN ANGER…

SHEMINI — We all become rash when we are angry.  We are quick to condemn others.  Anger clouds our reason, and we can accuse others without thinking clearly.    When we become angry we should ask ourselves: what good motivation might this person have for his or her action that I can’t see?  What am I missing that this person sees?  Though we may have reason to be upset, often our own reactions are clouded by emotion, blinding us from seeing the true situation before us. In this week’s parashah, Moses gets angry with Eliezer and Itamar, two of...

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CHERISHING WHAT IS BROKEN…

KI TISSA —  We are each our own harshest critics. It is very easy to see our own flaws and what we could do better. We dwell on things in ourselves that others don’t even notice. But this does not prevent us also from seeing flaws in those around us. Often it is easy to focus on what is not as we would like. But these flaws, like veins in a beautiful gem, are what remind us that we are each unique creations. Imagine how boring the world would be if we were all perfect and no butterfly were...

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