Category: humility

HUMILITY VS INSECURITY…

TZAV — Humility is a difficult trait to teach and to acquire. We must understand the difference between humility and insecurity. Insecurity is the lack of confidence in our abilities. Humility is achieved when we have the confidence in ourselves along with awareness that our abilities are in fact gifts with responsibilities. This week’s Torah portion contains a reminder to the Priests that they are there to serve with humility. Priests perform their Temple rituals in magnificent dress, but they must regularly perform very menial tasks such as cleaning the Altar in ordinary worker’s clothes. The Priests, the most...

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FINDING THE CORRECT BALANCE…

YITRO — People will take greater notice of our actions than they will of our boasting about them. One of the most important things we can teach our children is not to think only about themselves.  Being sensitive to the feelings of others comes naturally to some, but most need guidance to develop this skill.  As parents, how we model this behavior is crucial.  Having a humble spirit may mean not being easily drawn into a defensive argument when criticized. In this week’s Torah portion G-d delivers the Ten Commandments and Torah at Mt. Sinai, a small, low, non-descript mountain.  Stories...

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HUMILITY…

BESHALACH — What gives us our sense of value? Is it our own accomplishments or others recognizing that we’ve achieved success? Is it possible to be humble and self-confident at the same time? We can learn an important message from Moses. In this week’s portion, his authority was challenged by disgruntled members of the Jewish nation. Moses was well aware of his special relationship with God and the responsibility he carried as leader of the nation. Nonetheless, he truly did not view those achievements as reason for arrogance. Moses was a confident leader but a humble man, recognizing that...

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